Just Words...

 Justice......It's overrated.

People get kidnapped,murdered,assaulted,raped.....the list goes on...and on.....

They say convicting the people responsible for the crime,brings about justice for the victims?Does it really?

Think about the dead,murdered ones.....do they get their life back?
Leave alone the dead,even the victims still alive,become close to zombies.
Hardly a few recover,if ever.
And they say 'justice has been given!'

What about the cases in which no one is given any punishment as such for their deed??

The 16th December,2012 rape case in India...take that for instance...the 17 year old juvenile walks free,cause he is apparently,well,small.
He didn't consider that when he hurt the girl.He didn't consider that when he left her to die,when he raped her,when he pulled out her intestines!
Then why is he considered a minor and inflicted with the most minimum penalty imaginable??
Psychiatric help was provided to him......as if that will make him mend his ways.

What about the oh so famous 'JACK THE RIPPER'?
He killed multiple women!Brutally!
And was never ever caught.
He himself must've died a natural death.Is that justice for all of his victims?
 

The Gilgo Killer.He killed around 14 people and was even involved in sex trade over around 15 years.
He was never identified.
The people he murdered,their bodily remains,yes..just remains,were found in various different parts of nassau county.
And that is just the record of the bodies that were somehow found.What about the ones which never were.
 

The horrible story of junko furuta...
A normal Japanese school girl.........went to school one day....never to return back home.
The story which follows of what she suffered is sick.The way she was mistreated,assaulted,raped........
One might get goosebumps reading about the case.
 The boys who kidnapped her, hung Junko from the ceiling and literally used her as a punching bag until her damaged internal organs made blood run from her mouth. The abuse had destroyed her bodily systems Then they taunted her with a candle flame, and finally doused her legs in lighter fluid and set her on fire, as punishment for trying to run away.They dropped weights on her body. They burned her with cigarettes. They stuck lit fireworks in her mouth, ears and watched them explode. They shoved still-hot light bulbs in her private organs. The boys starved her—when they weren’t forcing her to eat cockroaches and drink her own urine.
Junko soon died.The thugs who’d abducted her hid her corpse in a 55-gallon drum, filled it with concrete, and left it in an empty factory lot in Koto, a waterfront area just east of Tokyo’s center .
It was a year before the body was even found......

Arushi talwar murder case.
13 year old found murdered in her bedroom,Throat slit.The suspicion straight away fell on the servant,who himself was soon found dead.
So what was the protocol that followed?The parents would have killed both of them.
Without concrete proof or evidence.....just at face value,the parents convicted of murder of two people,one being their very own teenage daughter! Who was in fact about to turn 14 just two days after.The poor couple is almost helpless.Their sole daughter dead and defamed.And they can't do anything to  clear her name or their own as a matter of fact.

Jessica Lal murder case.
She was simply bar tending at a private celebrity event where she was shot was simply no fault as such of her own.
The witnesses ,though many,refused to testify against the probable killer out of fear.
Out of danger for their own life.Out of ,what i think to an extent,selfishness.Even people who knew her did not want to risk their own lives,as the so called killer was a man of status.

What about school shootouts?
Sandy hook elementary,Columbine high school massacre,Chardon high school shooting, Virginia Tech massacre..........These are just a few.
Kids were killed,so were teachers in every one of these shootings.
That too for no real reason.
Yes the killers were convicted....But what about the families??
The young children...who hadn't even seen the World properly yet....
They were just starting out as humans.....

 I could go on and on....

Write stories upon stories...recite incidences upon incidences...

But the most pathetic part?Even i can't do anything about it,no matter how badly i want to.

That is the worse part.
Unable to change things that HAVE to change.

People might say and write about it.....May preach about it......May put forth their regret and condolences......

But up to what good is that?

Cause after all...words are just words...even if you mean what you say.....

OBLIVION

Nobody knows what lies ahead
Not even fortune tellers or soothsayers.
No one knows what will happen to them
Not even the powerful kings and rulers

We all are unaware and uncertain,
Of what lies in store for us.
We wonder if our lives would be good or bad...
Maybe it'll be happy?!...Hopefully not sad!

Forget tomorrow or day after..
Even the rest of today is a mystery!
The future awaits us......
Soon to become our history....

What would you choose though,
If you were indeed given a choice?
A choice between the obvious....
Oblivion or omniscience?

                         

Till next time...adios :)

Little Things That Matter

Getting an unexpected call,

Finally,being able to shoot hoops at basketball!

Scoring the highest score on a video game,

Hearing an infant say your name!

Finding money in your old jean pocket,

Making last minute plans to go shopping to the market!

Getting a good grade on a test you expected to fail,

The joy of knowing the shoes you wanted,are finally on SALE!

Singing in the shower,

Dreaming of visiting the Eiffel Tower

Having fun being home alone,

On a hot summer day,eating an ice-cream cone!

Finally getting to see the movie you were dying to see,

Not to forget,after hours of controlling,the relief of finding a place to pee!!

Getting mobile network in isolated places,

The first time you tied your own shoe laces!

Passing chits in class while the teacher teaches,

Oh the thrill of going to beaches!

Times when you got high on nothing but water!
Times when you tried to talk in various accents, including hermoine's from harry potter  :P (It's leviosa not leviosar )

Little things do matter

These are memories you hold,that nobody can possibly shatter

Memories that overwhelm you and make you cry

Memories that make you laugh and those that make you sigh..........

I Wonder Why...

Suicide......

Each one of us will have varying opinions about the above....Some may say that people who commit suicide are cowards.....Some agree with the theory of each suicide victim being somewhat mentally unstable....Some even compare suicide to murder...murder of one's own self.....



Several suicide cases have been bought into our notice...
Every year, almost one million people die from suicide; a "global" mortality rate of 16 per 100,000, or one death every 40 seconds...In the last 45 years suicide rates have increased by 60% worldwide....In fact...On average a suicide occurs every 17 minutes!
Suicide happens to be the 5th leading cause of death for young people aged 5-14....and second leading cause of death among college students...
Apart from this...There are approximately 750,000 suicide attempts each year.
Among the methods used....firearms are the most common....Followed by hanging,strangulation,suffocation,drowning,poisons.....even methods such as burning oneself...alive.
A sad statistics chart indeed.....




However.....Ever wondered what leads people to commit suicide?
What must be going on in their minds as they actually take their own lives?
What pushes them to take such a drastic step?



Various psychologists,psychiatrists...and other people dealing with humans......have put forward possible steps that leads a person to commit suicide......
They are....

1) Severe disappointment.
 First, you experience severe disappointment. You set your standards, and your circumstances fall far below those expectations. Maybe it’s that your expectations were too high; maybe it’s that you’re just going through a lot of setbacks in your life. Regardless, you’re in the midst of severe disappointment. 

2) Self-blame.
You blame yourself for all of the disappointment in your life. As a result of your miserable circumstances, you begin to “demonize” yourself, heaping the blame on your own shoulders. Part of this demonization means developing a deep hate for yourself, characterized by low self-esteem and self-worth. 

3) Self-absorption.
You become entirely obsessed with your own inability to measure up to the standards that you have set up. You turn inward, shutting out those around you. When you face the pressure to commit suicide, your battle is not against the people in your life who have hurt you; it is against your perceptions of yourself.

4) Depression and anxiety.
Here, you experience “negative affect,” meaning that you experience negative emotions related to your disappointment. Severe depression or a sense of anxiety sets in. We use others’ standards to compare ourselves, and we experience deep anxiety when we fail to meet those expectations. This anxiety, too, can translate into suicidal thoughts.

5) Cognitive deconstruction.
In this phase, your brain breaks down your life into easy-to-understand thoughts. This step of suicide involves an “escape from meaningful thought,”. This is why suicide is so dangerous to contemplate—thinking about the big questions only reminds you of your depression, and so you enter a sort of “emotional deadness” instead. This deadness is a big part of how suicide progresses. 
6) Disinhibition
Your brain has turned off “deep” thoughts about how your death would affect those you love or how suicide may be “wrong,” your brain has finally accepted that to commit suicide may be your best escape from depression


I personally am not satisfied with the explanations given by people about suicide....
I mean,try putting yourself in the shoes of a person who is actually on the verge of  committing suicide.......
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Are you able to empathize with the hypothetical person in the scenario??

It's hard right?
It's like a mystery in itself.....a deep ...unsettling mystery........ 

Here is something that Susanna Kaysen wrote......

“Why did she do it? Nobody dared to ask. Because - what courage! Who had the courage to burn herself? Twenty aspirin, a little slit alongside the veins of the arm, maybe even a bad half hour standing on a roof: We've all had those. And somewhat more dangerous things, like putting a gun in your mouth. But you put it there, you taste it, it's cold and greasy, your finger is on the trigger, and you find that a whole world lies between this moment and the moment you've been planning, when you'll pull the trigger. That world defeats you. You put the gun back in the drawer. You'll have to find another way.

What was that moment like for her? The moment she lit the match. Had she already tried roofs and guns and aspirins? Or was it just an inspiration?

I had an inspiration once. I woke up one morning and I knew that today I had to swallow fifty aspirin. It was my task: my job for the day. I lined them up on my desk and took them one by one, counting. But it's not the same as what she did. I could have stopped, at ten, or at thirty. And I could have done what I did do, which was go onto the street and faint. Fifty aspirin is a lot of aspirin, but going onto the street and fainting is like putting the gun back in the drawer.

She lit the match.” 



What do you think??Is suicide the fault of the  person committing it...or is the situation,surroundings and people around to be blamed?What's your take on the subject....?

Well...I guess people like these just need some support...and hope...
In case you do do happen to know someone like this.....don't cease to help them....
If you can save a life...then why not do so?

And in case there is anyone reading this...who actually found suicide compelling and was going to go forward with it...........DON'T!
Life may seem bad,unfair...unpleasant......weird........But guess what?You aint the only one who thinks that way .....everyone feels so at some point or the other....escaping from troubles once and for all is no answer to your problems......I hope you realise that....... :)



―I'll end with a quote by  Lucius Annaeus Seneca ......

“Sometimes even to live is an act of courage.” 


Till next time......Adios...... :)

A Friend Is......

How would you describe a friend?

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Someone who makes you laugh?

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Someone who makes you cry at times?

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Someone who is helpful?

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Someone who can be trusted?

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Someone who is fun to be around..?

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Someone who teases you playfully?

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Someone you can depend upon?

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Someone who encourages you and pushes you to do your best...maybe even literally :p

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Someone who doesn't judge you and accepts you just the way you are...?

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Someone you occasionally fight with..? :P

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Someone you like to hang out with...?

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Someone who's got your back?

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Someone who pisses you off or annoys you at times :P

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 Or maybe

Someone around whom you can just be 'yourself'! :D

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Imagine a life without any friends...........DEPRESSING RIGHT?!

Each one of us,i can bet,has at least one friend belonging to at least one of the above mentioned categories! :D

We all have all sorts of friends!Ranging from the crazy and the crackpots to the sane and sensible ones!But the amazing fact is that,each one is important in some way or the other.You know your friends matter to you......just like your friendship matters to someone else..!

Friends make life fun,complicated,scary,comforting......anything and everything....!!

Memories spent with them are forever cherished....and never worth forgetting anyway.

Friendship spreads on!So even if you have a thousand friends,you can always add one more :D

So one can never really have 'enough' friends...

Friendship may not seem as important as it is...but you know what?At times wen you dont know what to do or where to go or just confused...in any kind of trouble....friends will always be there to bail you out of your problems!!

So in case you have failed to acknowledge the importance of friends in your life,do so today!

'Cause there is nothing better than a friend...except a friend with chocolate ofcourse!  :P

Till next time....Adios! :D

One Of A Kind

Whomsoever has ever felt lost,or confused,or felt as though they don't fit in....kindly raise your computer mouse .high up in the air!

I bet each one of you have those low moments where you feel alienated..as though you don't know yourselves anymore....

When you get sudden pseudo realizations which make you feel unworthy and unfit and like you're not good enough.

The cause for these can be numerous!Maybe someone hurt you...or spoke harshly to you or maybe it's just some plain hidden inferiority complex..The stimulus agents can be numerous and hard to point out....but the effect of them on us is mostly the same...

We are left with doubt in our minds...doubts about yourselves.....

You start wondering about the reason behind your very existence....and very often that somehow just seems to be a unsolvable mystery ....

But you know what?

Don't give up just yet!Cause you are so much more than what's visible of you on the surface!You ,yourself are unaware of how good you are!

You are indeed one of a kind!Each one of you!Truly..!

All you need to do is,look at the silver lining instead of the dark clouds...

We all have skeletons in our closets which haunt us....But the key to overcome that is acceptance and the desire to do your best in the future.....cause hey,today happens to be the first day of rest of your lives!

So don't just sit and while away time!Get up and be the person you always wanted to be!!Fulfill your goals and desires......Just think of what you really want........and well believe that you have it.....

And don't forget

Till next time...adios :D

When boredom strikes......!

It sucks when even the vacations you waited for sooo long ,turn out boring!

It's like i don't have anything to do!(Except studies and homework....those don't really count as 'interesting' things' ): )

^Haha! I really liked this! :P

So where was i??Oh ya.....BORING VACATIONS!!
Frankly all i do all day is:
Get up

Eat

T.v.

Internet

(Do nothing productive while awake,in short)

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SLEEP!!

I sleep late and get up all the more late!It's like vacations hamper with my sleep way too much...my whole sleep cycle gets badly spoiled...but then again...it doesn't make much of a difference when you get to sleeeeppppp soooo peacefully!! O:)

I had planned on making the most of these vacations! But as presumed...i didn't end up doing much at all! 

I did go to out of city for a few days though..that was fun..... !
And i even went for movies....
The latest movie i saw,however ,was frankly a waste of time!I would’ve have frankly preferred studying  if given the choice(yes,I said studying….so you can imagine the extent to which I  found the movie not wort watching)

So well while sitting in the movie hall…I started thinking of alternative things to do which would be fun… :p

1)Laugh at all the sad scenes….

2)Buy your popcorn but eat those of the one sitting beside you!
3)Count the number of times someone's phone rings

3)Or  count the number of time a person in the audience coughs or  sneezes!!
4) Stand up in midst of the movie…..just to annoy the person behind you :P (face it..you are never  gonna meet that person  again..so no harm :P )
5)Hoot when a serious scene comes up!
6)Play with the chair you are seated on….keep swinging in it….go up and down….up  and down…up and down……..(you  get the picture right? :P
7)Buy loads of nachos….and distribute them inside the hall to everyone :P
(this one might be expensive though :P )
8)Sleep…..
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I kinda even  did the last  one! :p

Even my house got repainted yesterday!That kinda made my vacations a teeny bit more exhausting! Moving huge cupboards and beds around the house...isn't really fun,you know....

And the dust.....!!! It's almost like i was unaware i was living in a house which had more sand than  a beach! 

Best part is the discovery we made!!There was a mummified rat in one of the really ancient cardboard boxes.....have a look.... :P

If you tend to find gross things such as this,fancy..like i do.......kudos to you! :D :P  Treat your  eyes to the picture of  the rat fossil!! :P



So yeah...even that was kinda a highlight of the vacations for me so far....... :P


Well if you,dear reader,happen to have ideas pertaining to make vacations interesting........the comment box is bellow,buddy!! ;)

Till next time......Adios! :D

Sooooo HOT!

I got up today...stepped outside my house....and not a minute had passed that i felt a sweat droplet trickle down my forehead!
Boy,is it hot these days!!!
(For whosoever read the topic and thought otherwise,i'm just going to be talking in respect of the weather buddy :P)

Gone are the times when summer used to bring along with it an excuse to get out of the house and have fun!Now,even standing in a room without a fan for more than 5 minutes seems like a life challenging task -_-

Now that vacations  are on,i would have loved going to places!But in this heat,even the walk from my bed to the fridge is exhausting! I infact find ways to stay indoors these days.How depressing!
However,when i  do step out....it's like i  can literally feel the sun penetrate through my skin!Like i'm being fried in a hot saucepan! I guess i finally kinda know what a chicken goes through while being cooked....... :P (Pardon me for that examples,vegetarians :P )

And the even more annoying part....getting tanned! I am not really the kind of person who gets affected by stuff such as this,but it becomes an issue when i am tanned in the most uneven way imaginable! It's almost like an art student can study different shades of the colour just by looking at me!! I saw myself in the mirror today morning and saw that my face itself was of four different contrasts!! I admit it looked funny to an extent :P

I dont even feel hungry these days.....just fill my system with liquids and i shall be satisfied!! Water water water WATER!!
Water is all i long for the whole day!!It's like,summer makes me realise the importance of dear H2O!

Ahhh.....i soo long for winters to come soon..........."sigh"

Anywhoo.....i shall go pop an ice cube in my mouth now :P
Till next time...Adios! :D
 

A Little Something I Made-2

"Art enables us to find ourselves and loose ourselves at the same time"

-Thomas Merton

PRANK!!!!!!

Who doesn't love playing pranks on people every once in a while?! Everyone loves it!!!(Even the most boring people would love pranks i think!! ) The toothpaste between Oreo biscuits , the kick me signs behind friends,changing someone's cell phone settings to another language:these are some of the classic pranks!

So well,a friend played a prank on a number of us today!!I wont be sharing about that here,although, her so called prank made me want to share a specific prank i played on my brother quite a while back!

So as a kid,i used to love carbonated drinks!(I still do...but that's not the point :p).I used to love drinking fanta in particular!!

But well like most siblings,,my brother too,would finish majority of it,leaving only a little of it left for me to drink. My love for fanta made me want to take revenge!!

So one day,while he was away at school,i took a couple of my paints....orange coloured paints...and mixed them with water in a tall juice glass.I then added baking soda to it which gave it a fizzy look. I then went and placed it on the kitchen counter when i knew it was time for him to be back.

And then i waited in anticipation..............TICK-TOCK .......TICK-TOCK.......time went as i waited.......

And then!! The Moment!!!

He walked in....went straight into the kitchen....saw the glass of paint....mistook it for being fanta....AND LO AND BEHOLD....gulped the whole thing down in one huge sip!!!

And poor chap......started throwing up like a fountain! I stood there laughing my head off!! I know it seems mean on my part,but believe me,his expression and all could have made even Hitler laugh if he were present there!!

So well,in the end i did get busted for playing that prank.

But hey,it was sooo totally worth it!! :P :D

I would love to know about pranks that anyone of you ever played!!! Do let me know by commenting in the comment box below!!! :D

Till next time....Adios! :)

A Little Something I Made!

“As my artist’s statement explains, my work is utterly incomprehensible and is therefore full of deep significance” 

~Calvin and Hobbes

What Time Is It?!

IT'S HOLIDAY TIME!!!!

No more school for more than a month!No more staying up late nights to finish pending homework due the next day (though obviously no one sleeps early during holidays...doing anything but homework hopefully!:P ) And no more waking up early in the mornings!
How consoling is that!?! :D

These holidays ,however, have bought along with it a wave of nostalgia. These are the last school vacations i am ever going to have in my ENTIRE LIFE!

Imagine having to leave a place you've been around for almost 14 years!It's some what depressing,if you ask me.I mean i would not miss school and all as such.

Just the memories,the people,the place......

School had become like a habit,you know....

Waking up in the morning,getting ready,catching the bus to go to school,reaching class,having absolutely bizarre yet entertaining morning discussions with friends,studying(or rather forceful studying :P ) ,trying every play in the book to get teachers to not teach or trying out every possible excuse to skip class,getting into trouble for random things and getting penalized for it (happens :P ), recess periods where everyone talked more than eating..........!!! And sooo much more!!
School is like a whole other world! A random,fun,unpredictable,happy world! :)

The thought of leaving school can be quite overwhelming! But i guess one cant pause life  no matter how badly one wants to......
Speaking of which....somebody should really start working on the time machine idea....at least people like me can use it to go back and relive my childhood school days!! :P


Well that's all for now.........Adios! :D

HOLA !

Creating a blog was something that was on my mind for quite some time.

However, choosing a specific theme for it was something that left me  blank to some extent. 

So I decided to make this blog random!! (it'll still make sense though :P)
My posts will be based on probably anything and everything
(maybe not everything…that’ll be hard :P )
I’ll try my best to make it worth the read though !

This is my first attempt at blogging .So well, bear with me and any kind of feedback will be appreciated :D